When
read metaphorically, stories can be an ancestral road map to help us know the
way off the Vicious
Circle or, in this case, how to stay on it:
It
is not uncommon to begin this story in the middle: Parcival was lost. He was
trying to find his way home. He had just officially become a knight! In truth,
he was actually more a fool, more a trickster than knight, but it was a knight
that he wanted to become and so it was a knight that he became! He had trained with a master teacher after an
auspicious beginning. And now that he’d achieved his diploma, he was trying to
find his way home. He wanted to show his mother that he had become something
great!
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“Our
oddness counts for more than our normality. Our strangeness connects us to
others more than our conventionality, and when we identify with people it is
because we recognize the otherness we share with them.” -Declan
Donnellan, The Actor and The Target

Daren spends a lot of time with his two
sons. He’s a good dad and wants his boys to be successful in life. The majority
of his time with the boys is, in one way or another, teaching them to stand
out, to excel, to be independent. The boys go to the batting cages several
times a week to practice their swings. “Look at how they connect with that
ball! These boys are going to college on a scholarship,” Daren proudly
proclaims. His sons are 5 and 7 years old.
Both
boys play on little league teams with boys whose fathers also take them to the
cages. “The competition is intense,” Daren tells me.
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In
the days following hurricane Katrina, Dr. Sue Eskridge did what all good
teachers do; she used world events to engage her students in something real,
transforming her class in Children’s Literature at the Benerd School of
Education at the University of the Pacific into the Katrina Book Project. She charged her students with the task of
writing, illustrating and producing books for children from the hurricane zone
to help them cope with the loss of families, homes, pets, and the life they
once knew. In addition, the class invited other organizations, authors,
illustrators, and actors from all over the country to contribute to the
project. The books and recordings will be bundled with food and medical
supplies and delivered to the children over the next several months.
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When
people meet my friend Dan, they often turn away from him, act like they’re suddenly
busy with lint in their pockets…anything to avoid looking at him or shaking
hands with him.
Why
this almost universal response?
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